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The male/female binary is a Myth!

I am a man, with a few boy parts, that most call girl parts. But that is only because they believe in lies. They are all boy parts if they are my parts, because I am a boy.  I might be non-conforming, but they belong to me, and my legal gender is male.  As for…… Continue reading The male/female binary is a Myth!

Emancipation · Freedom · Human Rights · Intersex Awareness · Intersex Erasure · Poems

Poem: I am a Boxphobe!

This poem was inspired after an amazing conversation with Judi Herring, M.D., the creator of the TEDx Talk: Gender Bound, Lessons From the World Between.   Yup, I am a Boxphobe! PINK can be for boys! and BLUE can be for girls! and The RAINBOW is for HUMAN! ¤¤¤¤ Yup, I am a Boxphobe! Do…… Continue reading Poem: I am a Boxphobe!

Human Rights · Intersex Awareness · Intersex Erasure · Questions and Answers · Self-Determination · United Nations

The FEMALE PENIS and the MALE VAGINA; and explaining this to our children.

Our kids are proof that it is about educating male/female binary, and intersex erasure, that messes up the truth around natural bodily variations existing in us humans.  You see, our children were taught that intersex bodies existed, as soon as I realized I was not a disorder, and was actually born intersex instead.  Yup, they…… Continue reading The FEMALE PENIS and the MALE VAGINA; and explaining this to our children.

Bridge Building · Human Rights · Human Rights Violations · Intersex Erasure · Relationships

Adding the “I” responsibly to LGBT

A letter I shared on: Mx. Anunnaki Ray, Gender/Intersex Activist Facebook Page: Sending a note, to simply say thank you again, for listening, and sharing this page. It is sometimes hard for people to hear about a culture different than their own, especially when daily the news can be so depressing and unimaginable. I have…… Continue reading Adding the “I” responsibly to LGBT

Intersex Awareness · Intersex Erasure · Poems · Relationships

Poem: IMAGINE being erased

I was in therapy learning that I was a girl. Sugar and spice and everything nice. At the same time my little brother’s emergence into this world was being celebrated. Snips and snails and puppy-dogs’ tails IMAGINE YAY! they said.  His penis a glorious thing! He will stand to pee even! He gets to carry…… Continue reading Poem: IMAGINE being erased

Countries Who Protect Intersex Children · Cultural Dysphoria · Human Rights Violations · Intersex Activist · Intersex Awareness · Intersex Erasure · Prejudice · Self-Determination

Please help us to change the way they talk about us.

Today I posted this on my Public Facebook Page:  Mx. Anunnaki Ray’s Gender/Intersex Activist: The message read: ****Please share this one and help those of us born intersex to change culture.**** I rarely ask for a favor, but PLEASE help this meme to go viral! Nothing is more frustrating than when documentaries educate wrong about…… Continue reading Please help us to change the way they talk about us.

Intersex Erasure · Poems · Prejudice · Transgender

Poem: My thoughts about your Open Mind

One should not say they have to have an open mind, to be a persons friend… That is jacked up. Here are my thoughts when you say you can be my friend because you have an open mind. The Earth was not flat, just because they thought it was at one time. I exist if…… Continue reading Poem: My thoughts about your Open Mind