Emancipation, Hope, Relationships

Yes, I was a cutter.

  I was a cutter. I want to own "was" a cutter, because I do not want to feed that monster no more. Triggers can sometimes bring back this self-destructive behavior.  Being born intersex, and not being able to be my authentic gender, messed me up bad.  You see, I was assigned a girl, when… Continue reading Yes, I was a cutter.

Gender Nonconforming, Relationships, Self-Determination, Transgender

Today is: “Gender Correct Day”

I have a dear lady friend.  Her name is Synthia Roy, and she lives in my city.  She now lives her authentic gender, after being assigned male at birth.   Her insight into what is happening around the definition of transgender, in our city, has truly concerned me.  I would like to talk about two… Continue reading Today is: “Gender Correct Day”

Poems, Self-Determination

Poem: Androgynous

ANDROGYNOUS  A     Anunnaki has no gender. It literally means "Ant Friend" in Ancient Sumerian. N     To say "Non-binary" admits there is a binary.  The binary is a social construct. D     Dream of a world that does not assign us at birth.  Who would you be if you were never… Continue reading Poem: Androgynous

Poems, Self-Determination, Short Messages

Poem: Don’t you see your lie?

As I walk this world I never felt so disappointed  so lonely  I use to think it was me Now I know better Most of the world's cultures built on this silly myth about gender The male and female binary And you say what they  believed  long ago was myth. Don't you see your lie?… Continue reading Poem: Don’t you see your lie?

Human Rights Violations, Intersex Awareness, United Nations

INTERSEX Erasure Hurts! Examples of Misguidance from Doctors.

Here are some examples of the misguidance doctors tell parents of intersex infants, and children, to reinforce that surgery is a must, when it rarely medically necessary: 1 Medical Misguidance: The most common thing I see happening is that doctors are not calling intersex infants, intersex. I am certain that this is in order to… Continue reading INTERSEX Erasure Hurts! Examples of Misguidance from Doctors.

Human Rights, Intersex Awareness, United Nations

I was born perfect, and I am lovable. Thank you, United Nations.

I have joined my husband of twenty-eight years to make this message to the world for October, 26th, Intersex Awareness Day 2016.  After living for so long believing I was broken, I now know that I was born perfect and that I am lovable.  Thank you, my sweet husband, for loving me for who I am,… Continue reading I was born perfect, and I am lovable. Thank you, United Nations.

Human Rights, Poems, Relationships, Self-Determination

Poem: Precious child, that came into my life

Precious child, that came into my life, To show me that my work is making a difference. Your hugs, your love, a priceless gift. To think, you thank me for showing you are not alone. And yet, you are the one that made me feel that I am not alone. Precious child, that came into my… Continue reading Poem: Precious child, that came into my life

Gender Nonconforming, Intersex Awareness, Questions and Answers, Self-Determination

Anunnaki shares his life story

Here is my story in short: I believed I was a disorder, a condition, and a syndrome most my life. It took Pidgeon Pagonis, Hida Viloria, Cary Gabriel Costello Ph.D., Tiger Devore Ph.D., Tony Briffa, Buck Angel,  Judi Herring, M.D., and many other amazing souls, to help me realize that my adrenal condition, and PCOS,… Continue reading Anunnaki shares his life story

Human Rights, Intersex Awareness, Science, Self-Determination, Transgender

A Male/Female Mosaic Brain Proves We Need the Self-Determination of Gender

  People have tried to create the myth that the brain is either male or female.  However, the science around this is very skewed, biased, and is always proven to be not good science at all.  I can see why transgender people, and their doctors, psychiatrists,  psychologist,  would be eager to want to prove the… Continue reading A Male/Female Mosaic Brain Proves We Need the Self-Determination of Gender

Countries Who Protect Intersex Children, Cultural Dysphoria, Human Rights Violations, Intersex Activist, Intersex Awareness, Intersex Erasure, Prejudice, Self-Determination

Please help us to change the way they talk about us.

Today I posted this on my Public Facebook Page:  Mx. Anunnaki Ray's Gender/Intersex Activist: The message read: ****Please share this one and help those of us born intersex to change culture.**** I rarely ask for a favor, but PLEASE help this meme to go viral! Nothing is more frustrating than when documentaries educate wrong about… Continue reading Please help us to change the way they talk about us.