My thoughts today and the way I see it.
I feel that one of the biggest problem society has right now, with the confusion of sex and gender, is that most people conflate anatomical sex with gender identity. Thinking that they are both the same thing when they are not. Most do not know this, but anatomical sex and gender identity do not always match, and this equates to millions of people that this is happening to. Some of the worst human rights violations are happening due to intersex children being forced through nonconsenting genital corrective surgeries to match their genitals surgically to what this world feels equals a boy or a girl. If the world population is 7.6 billion, this means 129 million intersex people are being born. If we add transgender and nonconforming gender identity people to this number we would easily have over 200 million people with the potential of being assigned wrong at birth. All of them possibly facing surgery to match their genitals to the expectations of this gender binary. My blog: How Many People Are Assigned Wrong At Birth?
Anatomical sex has to do with genitals, chromosomes, hormones and our reproductive system. We have endosex bodies who abide by the specifications of what supposedly belongs to a typical male or female body and then you have all the various intersex bodily variations. An intersex person can have chromosomes, genitals, reproductive system, or hormones that are a mix of male and female in some way.
I feel that all these heteronormative, cisgender, endosex rules are a human-made social construct that claims what body parts and chromosomes belong and should not belong to certain types of human bodies. In reality, and in nature different variations happen and do not abide by this social construct. You see, both endosex and intersex born people can grow up to become any gender identity, man/boy, woman/girl, both or neither and their chromosomes and body parts do not always agree to societies rules. This means there are going to be millions of people assigned wrong at birth if we continue to abide by this fallacy.
Our anatomical sex and gender identity do not always match.
As we can see with some intersex people and transgender people our anatomical sex and gender identity do not always match. Thus here lies the problems with most birth certificates and forms in our country/world right now. Forms conflate anatomical sex with gender identity.
Most believe that XX is always female and XY is always male. This is not true. In truth, nature makes XX males and XY females, and a Y chromosome doesn’t always make a boy. Also, nature also proves that a penis doesn’t always make a boy, nor a vagina a girl. It is this fallacy and cultural construct of sex and gender needing to always match this man made ideal that has created this bias and erases the existence of millions of transgender, non-conforming gender people, and intersex bodied people. Some of the worse human rights violations are happening on this planet right now due to this fallacy and cultural construct of gender.
When we do not match we are the ones who are often diagnosed or labeled with gender dysphoria. , or worse, when we do not match nonconsenting innocent intersex children are forced into surgeries. Gender dysphoria is a diagnosis that happens when a person has a mismatch between their anatomical sex and gender identity. Sometimes this can cause the person to feel like they are in the wrong body. Gender dysphoria is sometimes known as gender identity disorder (GID), gender incongruence or transgenderism. At this time, anatomical sex is assigned at birth, depending on the appearance of the genitals.
Instead of calling this gender dysphoria when we do not match this social construct and go against these cultural constraints, I would like to call this cultural dysphoria. This cultural dysphoria and lack of education is leading to transphobia, intersex phobia, queerphobia, homophobia, nonconsenting intersex surgeries on children, surgery regret with some transgender people, and an intolerance of nonconforming human diversity.
How do we change all this?
First of all, I believe it is important to stop calling intersex a condition, disorder or syndrome and stop diagnosing every single person who goes against their birth certificate with gender dysphoria. I know that some of us intersex people do not feel like we have a medical condition, and I know that not all transgender and gender non-conforming people have gender dysphoria.
I feel it is very important that we stop agreeing with the pathologizing language that the medical complex uses regarding intersex variations and people that go against their birth assignment. With intersex people, I think it is very important to stop saying “conditions”, “disorders”, “syndrome” and “defects”. Instead, please say: “Intersex Bodily Variations”. This way we have a powerful impact on changing our culture with the truth.
By saying “intersex bodily variations” this helps us as intersex adults and children to feel more accepted and not so judged as broken or something to be fixed or set apart. One would never say they have the “condition” of being an endosex female or endosex male. We should not be saying it for intersex children either. Note again: Endosex is what you are if you are not born with an intersex variation.
Also, although some transgender and intersex people truly do have gender dysphoria and would greatly benefit from surgeries and a full transition to match typical endosex male and endosex female bodily notations, not all people who go against their birth assignment have gender dysphoria, and not all transgender, intersex born, or non-conforming gender identity people want surgery or hormones to match these conforming binary notions.
The problem: Non-conforming choices to exist are not given by professionals
The way I see it, here lies a big problem: Few councilors, endocrinologists, and surgeons give information about all these nonconforming bodily choices. Professionals do not even tell the parents of intersex children, or adults seeking transition that nonconforming in our body, hormones, and gender identity, is even an option. This problem with informed consent is happening to adults too, not just intersex children. Surgery regret happens with transgender people too, not just nonconsenting intersex children.
I believe informed consent should be everybody’s right This is a human rights violation when people are not given options. It is time to end cultural dysphoria and give nonconforming bodily choices. I feel genital integrity is for every human. The female penis and male vagina exist. XX men exist, and XY women exist too. Help me to end cultural dysphoria.
Source: Here are two PDF files that can be printed to educate that uses the right language for intersex people.
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