After forty-six years, I finally figured out that I was born in the right body! Since my life had been destroyed by this ideal regarding male and female, I have joked that I was born to the wrong planet at times though. I joked that the Mothership had left me here. Yes, my life was… Continue reading All Intersex Bodies are Beautiful, and I do not need fixed to fit your ‘normal’.
Since I have chosen to live as my true self, I have been having deep thoughts about this male/female binary. Being born an intersex person in the late 60's, and even if I had been born now, there is no option to raise me gender neutral, androgynous, gender non-conforming, or non binary gender. Even transgender children, and… Continue reading Mx. Anunnaki Ray and They, Them, Their, He, Him, His….
For fun, I compare myself to a seahorse dad. For it is the seahorse dads who give birth. Yes, I am a gestational father, a term I got from my intersex friend. I am an intersex person, who identifies as being a man and gender nonconforming because my body is not male. My body… Continue reading I am a SEAHORSE Dad
Written October 2015 I was born an intersex person. I was declared female at birth. I am now 10 months, and 2 weeks into reclaiming my true gender male. Although I also identify as being a non-binary male. I started my transition to my true gender at forty-six years old. I remain with my dedicated… Continue reading Where is A Safe Place?
As an intersex survivor, it is my commitment to join other intersex or social activist, in helping to show this world that little intersex children should not be harmed any more. I am now dedicated to do this with Judi Herring, M.D., and with the new friendships, mentorship and wisdom of several intersex activists who… Continue reading I am an Emerging Gender/Intersex Activist
It is important that I share with you something I see many having confusion around when referring to a person born with intersex traits. My body was born with physical traits of both male and female. There are many different ways this can happen in a person, but to keep things simple, for me it… Continue reading I was born with an Intersex body, but this does not create my Gender or my Sexual Orientation.
There are too many dying, and committing suicide who are gender non-conforming or transgender. I was almost one of them. Being born with intersex traits, for me, does not separate me, or protect me, from the ugly prejudice and misconceptions the world has about us gender non-conforming and transgender people. I speak for myself, but… Continue reading Too many Dying: I was Almost One of them.
I believe that people with intersex traits are a natural occurring variance in nature. Very few conditions of intersex cause disease and need medical attention. Being born with intersex traits is truly no different than being born with red hair, or green eyes. It is simply unique and rare. Abnormal is used in describing a… Continue reading My Body is Not Abnormal. Please Don’t Call Me Broken.
Here is my first talk with Judi Herring, M.D., where I share my life story in September 2015: "Listen with Care: Build Bridges of Understanding" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERtkQJC3B4Q ~.V.~ You can also follow Facebook Public Page, where I share my blog, latest intersex news, and educate: Mx. ANUNNAKI RAY, Gender/INTERSEX Activist ~.V.~ I am also one of the… Continue reading My First Talk
Mx. Anunnaki Ray Marquez 